Testimony I grew up with religion but knew nothing about a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Prayer and Bible study were not a part of my life, and I believed that works would help me earn my place in heaven. After I grew up and married, my neighbors invited my former husband and me to the Officers Christian Fellowship, a nondenominational Bible study for military officers and their wives. We owned a large family Bible but didn’t know where it was. I borrowed a Bible from my neighbors to attend our first Bible study ever. The group discussed the book of Romans which contradicted everything we believed. After that first session, we stayed up most of the night in an attempt to find something that justified our beliefs. Within the month, I read the entire Bible and found nothing that would support our man-made traditions. I admitted I was a sinner, asked God to forgive me of my sins, and asked Jesus Christ to be my Lord and Savior.
1. What inspired you to write this book? I wanted a book full of Scripture, prayer, and hope. I also wanted one that with honesty and boldness would address the emotional roller coaster that cancer patients, even Christian ones, ride.
2. Whom is this book meant for? This book is for cancer patients, their families, friends, and care givers. It is also for anyone with a life-threatening disease, their families, friends, and care givers.
3. What advice do you have for cancer patients and those who love them? First of all, I recommend that cancer patients and those who love them be honest with God. He knows what we’re thinking any way and longs to help us. He won’t be disappointed or fall off His throne if we experience fear, depression, or anger. These are normal emotions, and God won’t love us any less for being human. He made us with tear ducts, and it’s OK to cry. God has promised never to leave us or forsake us. We can put Him to the test, and He will pass it.
Secondly, I recommend that cancer patients and those who love them be honest with each other. Please don’t pretend that everything is all right when it isn’t. Don’t try to be strong for each other. This is not the time to put on a front. You are human beings, not robots. Be real and discuss what you feel and think. If you hold everything in, you risk adding headaches, ulcers, or other complications to the mix. Grow closer to each other through communication and transparency. Then draw closer to God as you pray together for God’s wisdom, His strength, and His comfort.
4. What resources for cancer patients do you recommend? Of course, I recommend my book Hope for the Journey through Cancer. I also suggest that readers go to my website at www.yvonneortega.com. It lists several resources The link Stepping Stones for Survival is my blog and offers further information and tips for cancer patients, their families, friends, and care givers.